When we learn to fall in love, we will never forget, we will be changed, and it will be a part of us forever. Yes, we can leave behind our old self, but that doesn’t mean we can turn our self back to who we are before we learned to fall in love.
It is impossible to forget your past no matter what feelings these memories brought you. Unless you are willing to hit your head in your futile effort to suffer selective amnesia without altering your personality during the process, those memories will remain a part of you, especially when those memories touch your heart and change your life. We can MOVE ON and accept the things that cannot be, and accept it as it is. But we can also accept the realities of life while preserving that love that we secretly nurtured in our heart. It is not about giving up, not about letting go. It’s about how we treasured that moments that let us experience the beauty of life. Whether we let go or not, the thing that matter is our manner of using that experience to make a better person in us. Giving up is not always the right way. Sometimes, we refuse to let go not because of fear, but because by doing, we will also give up HOPE. Without Hope, we have no reason to exist. By choosing to give up, we are in some way sacrificing our rights to honor our commitment. COMMITMENT makes relationship works, and help LOVE survive the test of time. Without COMMITMENT, we are giving up our right to fall in love. Love is created not by words but by feelings, not by humans but by heart. LOVE is not about “Wondering how long it will last”, it’s about “How beautiful you can make it grow”. LOVE doesn’t mean you are with someone you truly love; it’s about “how that emotion touches you and changed your life”. We can’t give up without letting go, and we can’t let go if we keep on holding on. This makes the debate on GIVING UP, HOLDING ON, and LETTING GO moot and academic, because it is impossible to let go without giving up. It is impossible to LET GO while HOLDING ON at the same time. Leaving behind our old self and taking a leap of faith into the unknown, to reveal what we are truly capable of becoming, might only happen, if we will learn to come to terms with our previous experiences in life.
By that time, there’s nothing to let go, nothing to give up, because we are no longer dealing with the present but the past. All we’ve got are pains, and perhaps, beautiful memories that we might choose to hold on. All we need is the realization of the present and,... MOVE ON....
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