wouldn't trade it for the world

Relationships come with a lot of tribulations. We fight, we yell, we get jealous, we cry, we feel pain, we hurt, we scream, we get frustrated, we get angry, we get upset, we break up and our emotions take us over. So why do we do it? Why would we want to feel not just sad, but truly hurt, sad to the point where your whole body hurts just because of one person, sad to the point where you feel empty when everything falls apart, sad to the point where your heart aches for the company of that being. I’ll tell you why I do it, its because besides all those moments when your stupidity gets in the way of what your truly feeling and you “fight”, the moments when you are truly loving someone are the most touching, astounding, magnificent moments you will ever experience. When two people are just loving each other its magical. And to those of you who are to scared of getting hurt and too scared of the baggage that comes with relationships, let me tell you this, having someone you love and having them love you back is a feeling that you can not substitute. Having someone look at you with such a deep emotion is remarkable. Having someone touch with so much care brings a feeling of weightlessness throughout your whole body. Having someone whisper they love you feels like they screamed it. Having someone to hold your hand at all times just feels special. Having someone to be your best friend and be loyal to you and never lie to you feels so safe. So yeah, relationships suck, breaking up hurts, but having that someone that you feel so comfortable with, someone that you let inside your soul, someone that lets you inside theirs, someone to talk to at all hours during the day, someone to laugh with, someone to fall asleep with, having someone that is your other half for whatever amount of time you are together, is true beauty and I wouldn’t trade it for the world.

LOVE is not a simple word

 ~~>>My heart only fought for what it wanted. Now my heart is having to fight to let him go. I’m scared to fall in love, scared to fall fast, because every time I fall in love… it never seems to last.”Love is like a friendship caught on fire: In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep- burning and unquenchable.”An act of love that fails is just as much a part of the divine life as an act of love that succeeds, for love is measured by fullness, not by reception and without love we would all be nothing!

hurt..but now healed...

One of the worst things you can do after a break up, whether you were the one to do the breaking up or you were the one broken up with, is to blame yourself and berate yourself for things you realize you could have done differently. But this is precisely what I did. I think it’s better if I just let him go rather than open that door of communication again.

After years of ups and downs, crying myself to sleep and beating up on myself, I see it clearly now. This is not about me not being “strong” or “smart” enough. I think the fact that I cared about what he and I had, and that I “fell” for him, is a sign of my humanity. It’s clearly more of a risk to let your heart get involved than to remain unattached, but I’d rather be like that than close myself off and look at a person as only an object of lust. I think in my situation, he owed me a lot more than what he gave me. If it was only about sex with us, we shouldn’t have kept in touch and talked as frequently as we did about non-sex related things. If it’s only about sex for him, then he should keep it that way and try not to blur the lines between a person to have “fun” with and a person he genuinely likes. It makes me laugh now because, it almost felt like he was upset with me for feeling the way I did. Well excuse me, buddy, for actually liking you. If I thought you were just a jackass, I would have treated you that way. But I liked things about you other than when we were physical. How terribly awful of me to do that to you.

I deserved better from him. I know that now. Whether he knows it or not, I do, and that’s the only thing that matters... get it??

Where I Stand

I feel trapped in an infinite and bitter cold,

Imprisoned by the pain and lies you've told.

You asked me to forgive you for all that you've done,

But this is the web of betrayal you have spun.

This has taken much time and its breaking my heart,

And Ive concluded were best off apart.

But before i say good-bye and let go,

There are a few things that I want you to know.

I forgive you for all that you've done,

For wrecking my life and killing my son.

For your ill thought and premature misconceptions,

And your abusiveness,rage and crazed obsession.

I do wish you luck and love with someone else,

But before this I hope you one find yourself....

This is really ME..moving on!

I'm writing you to tell you that I'm moving on. Which may or may not mean anything to you, but honestly that is beside the point. Writing this letter to you is more for my sake, and pretty much has less to do with you receiving it and more about me writing it. You see I am a true master at not dealing with things. I'm sure you could see that, I'm not fooling anyone so I'm not going to fool myself anymore. I push all the hurts and the scars and the less than lovely things into deep recesses in my mind to forget about. That is until something small and insignificant arises that reminds me of whatever it is tucked away into those neat little boxes in my mind turning me into a complete mess once again. I can never move forward because of this. You once said you wanted to see me fly. In order to do that I have to deal with all the shit that's weighing me down and keeping my feet from leaving the ground.

I have the chance to be with someone good. Someone who is genuine and has the time and patience to deal with a girl like me. Someone who I believe I can open up to, and not use whatever I say against me. I've realized that I need to learn to love the things that are good for me, and he might very well be one of those things. So in order to not fuck up this beautiful opportunity for happiness, I need to deal with us. Here I go...

I think that was when I unconsciously gave you my heart. Because it wasn't about us, it was about me and my brokenness, it was about the well being of my soul and you cared about that. That's what made you different than the others. I tried to tell myself that you used me. Because I know how to deal with liars and pretenders and manipulators.. Because I can cry and eat a pint of ice cream and say 'fuck boys' and then get over it. It's much harder to get over someone who at one point cared for me. And I'm not even sure if I know how but I'll do my best. I thought maybe that closure was the answer. But I don't even think this idea of closure even exists.

"Closure" is just a term created by people so they can ask the same questions over and over hoping that someday they might get a different answer. I don't need any answers. I never really understood why you didn't want me anymore, and perhaps I never will, but that doesn't really matter. Because the fact is that you didn't want me anymore. And all I can do is accept that. And I do, I accept that. I'm not going to forget about you. That's not my goal here. My goal is to be able to look back on everything objectively and remember the things I learned about myself and the things I learned about people and life without feeling the pain that goes a long with these kinds of things.

So finally, this is me moving on. This is me wishing you well in whatever you pursue. This is me wishing you joy and happiness. And to one day, perhaps, being friends.

what love is all about

People who are in love anticipate good things and look forward to a better relationship. They hold on, they hope, and never rehearse their good traits just to brag and show off. They are considerate of each other’s feelings and courteous in their actions toward another.

There are many types of relationships that involve love, but love itself is a common thread to all those relationship.  A mother-son relationship is different from the relationship with a best friend, and both these relationships are different from a romantic relationship.

But in each of these relationships, each person wants the best for the other. This characteristic makes it possible for love to grow even if relationship does not exist.

Remember that there is no failure in love, because once you tell somebody whom you love, that you love him/her, then, you have already succeeded in love.

It is not necessary for the other person to love in return As a matter of fact, it is easy to look for someone to love but it is much more difficult to search for someone to love you back. The decision to love someone is an individual desire, but to respond and share the same feeling is a matter of the heart that rest on the other person.

 Love is considered to be the true universal language. It builds bridges between individuals and even transcends a lifetime because our print never fades on the life we touch, especially when we used love, kindness, and care in our effort to touch them.

If Love is like a music that begins and ends, then, remember that we are the Piano. Don’t be afraid to fall in Love, just like a Piano, the white keys represents happiness and the black ones show sadness.

But as we go through life journey, remember that black keys also make music. We make our life as if we are composing a love song, and we make life beautiful by learning to fall in love.

nothing..

You're burned into my mind forever. there is nothing. Nothing on this world that will ever change that!♥‿♥

EXCITING

    Life is about so much more than just relationships! and don't worry about all those different feelings, thats what makes a relationship exciting....~xoxo^_~

LET YOUR HEART.....

Knowing something is bad for you... going to ruin your life... and yet something, somehow is pushing you towards that and at the end, you decide to give in... Does that mean you have let your heart rule your head?

SOMETHING I DO HAVE TO DO FOR ME...

I’m writing this letter to tell you goodbye. I will never admit to writing this, much less ever give it to you, but this is something I need to do for myself. I’m letting go. You let go a long time ago, and I realize that it is time for me to do the same. I’m letting go of everything I thought that we would become. I’m letting go of thinking of you every single day, more than once. I’m letting go of secretly hoping that we will one day end up together. I’m letting go of waiting. I have realized once and for all that I am not meant to be with you. You know how much I cared about you, so I will not go into that in this letter. I have told you how I feel about you for years. I allowed you into the deepest part of my heart. I allowed you to know me better than I knew myself, and for that I am extremely regretful. Nothing is forever, and there is no reason to be so vulnerable. I gave you parts of myself that have taken many years to get back. I put you above myself…something that I will never do again for the rest of my life. I am my top priority, no one else. I look back on our relationship and sometimes find myself wishing that it never happened. I’m not sure if I actually mean that, because, after all, everyone says it’s better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. I’m not so sure though, because you hurt me in a way that I didn’t know was possible. I loved you with every single part of me. And when we were over, I felt as if I had lost all of those thousands of parts. You left me broken... I still feel broken sometimes. Maybe we went wrong because of the timing. Maybe it’s because we were still growing into ourselves, although I guess there is no use in speculating why things worked out the way they did. I firmly believe that everything happens for a reason.. God has taught me so much about myself this past year. In hindsight, I consider our break up a blessing. But, despite the fact that I have been growing a lot, I can say that iam healed.. Because every time I make the decision to be your friend, I fall harder.  I have learned that the way I care and taught me how to respect my self and I can’t truly move on until I cut you out of my life completely. I hope you don’t take this the wrong way. This is something I have to do for me, in order to love myself again, and someone else. Thank you for everything you have taught me. It’s been a long, crazy ride. Goodbye, D.

Best Wishes

let me know

Never thought I would be in this position. Remembering every touch, every single word. How my heart always raised when I looked into your eyes. Our sharing of cigarettes and serious talk. Laughter. Kisses. Hugs. Your hands around my body when spooning. Your smell.

For these seven months, my world has been revolved around you. Even though your world didn’t seem to have anything to do with me during this time, until yesterday. Telling me that you have to fix things, that you’re not perfect-but you’re willing to try, how you are longing for my hugs. Ending the conversation with me asking for you-without an answer. Texted you this morning, asking if your night had been a bit hazy-no answer.

You have been making my mind go crazy for seven months, still are. With this being the worst time ever. I want you, I want to try. Me standing here with my hands down, ready to take the punch. I want to know if you’re willing to try, or if these precious times together for me, have been nothing but a good way to spend a few hours. Let me know, the sooner the better.

i want to tell you how much I love you.

I don't want to feel afraid anymore.
I want to tell you how much I love you. In a way it doesn't seem too big to handle, in a way it doesn't seem too small to be cast aside, in a way it doesn't seem like a total joke, in a way it doesn't seem like it's just another bundle of words together. But I don't know how to. How to tell you I love you in the way I would want it to come out. I want to see the anticipation from your face before I can even say these words out. I want to see the smile slowly emerging out from that little face of yours. I want to feel the butterflies in your stomach. I want to know you feel the same way too.

Sometimes I feel "I love you" is too short a phrase for all that to be evident.

make your way back to me

I don't know how to start, so I’ll just say everything that comes to my head. It been one rough year and I know I haven't made it easy. I took it to a point, where you feel you're better without me. I finally got the one thing that I wanted and I blew it. I let so much things from my past get the best of me. You tried to take on everything that I was giving but it was too much. I put too much on you. I just want to say that I love you and I never meant to hurt you. I'm sorry that I didn't turn out to be the person I should have been. I've loved you since I was 16 you've been my everything. I know there is no choice but to walk away, I need to work on me and you also need to do the same. My heart is broken and I feel lost. I'm going to work real hard on getting myself better and I'm going to trust whatever it is that brings us together. I still believe you were made for me and I was made for you. We just keep doing it at the wrong time. So I'm telling you this one more time. Make sure you find your way back to me; I don't care if your 80 by then, I don't care. Make your way back to me because my arms are your home. I love you with my whole being. I promise you next time I will get it right and if it doesn't come... I’ll still be waiting in our next life time. I love you babe and as you see, I don't care if the whole world knows it. I'm sorry for the stress, drama. All I ever wanted was to love you. I’ll keep moving forward because my heart has hope. One day you will come back and we will live happy ever after. Until then... like I've told you before, if you feel lonely, sad or hurt, go to our special spot. the moon and I’ll be waiting for you. You can always catch me there, waiting for you..

Never going to go away

It doesn't feel weird to wake up without you anymore. Sometimes I feel terrible, sometimes fantastic, but it doesn't depend on you anymore. I can take as much time as I want in the morning - I can choose to get dressed as fast or slow as I want to and I can run out the door without having to pull you with me. My glass of water is mine only and is not emptied by somebody else.

But as you can see, I think about you.

But still… not.

I think about the person you were when I still had the energy to love you and you still hadn't crushed us. You were so damn egoistic when you treated yourself like shit. You never understood that we were bound together in the heart and that I was just as hurt as you when you threw yourself around like garbage. The concrete tore up both our bodies. Not just yours.

I don't think about who you are today. I don't miss the one you probably are now. I don't miss who you wanted to be or become.

Sweet you is missing. Gorgeous you. Handsome you. Annoying you. Restless you. Easily embarrassed you. Cuddly you. Morning moody you. Giggling you. Loving you. Real you! Everything you were, with all the negative and annoying behavior you brought with you.
On the inside, you never were something negative. I don't know whom you gave the right to change your personality, but it never really fit with the person I loved so sincerely. You changed shape, in some way. Became somebody else from time to time. Someone I didn't love at all.

Hell, I was so sick of you. And of me.

Maybe mostly of me. I disliked us so much in the end. Everything was so hard.
Only a few things were beautiful. Most things were just so damn ugly. And me! Angry, mad, cranky, sad, hurt, sarcastic, mean. I was everything that I'm not. And full of despair. So terribly full of despair, like I'd never been before.
For five years, my home was in your arms.
I love my life. Yes, I actually do. Despite everything. And can you believe it - I love my life even though you're not here with me!
I confess that I occasionally still feel like I'm dying when I realize that we're no longer… you know… Us. I can never deny that you were my other half. Neither can I deny that you're missing.
I nevertheless think that I now finally, finally, finally have reached the point where I want to leave you behind. I want to move on. I want to go on with my life. I want to look out ahead without seeing you everywhere, all the time.
It's going to take some time before I finally will, but I've taken a step in the right direction.
I want to move on now. And that's what's important.
But damn.

Damn, I loved you so much.
Damn, I always will.

And damn…
The pain is never going to go away.

ssshhh....dont!!

Live life! ♥ Love more! ♥ Smile a lot! :)

after reading blogs from women with great faith, i got encouraged by the faith they live. I was trying to look for something to encourage me that's why. While reading through those blogs God made me realize, life is too short to live in sadness and pain. It is too short not to choose happiness and forgiveness. It is too short not to love. :)

As All Souls Day is fast approaching, let us remember not only our loved ones who passed away but all the more our loved ones who are still around. Let them hear, feel and know how much we love them, care for them, value them and how much we appreciate them. :) Don't be shy and don't be 'kuripot' in saying:

"I'm sorry" 

"I forgive you"

"I love you" 

Don't hold back the warm embrace from your loved ones and the smile that could ease their pain. Count your blessings today and you will see how rich and blessed you are and I'm sure even before you're done counting your blessings, you are already smiling. :)

Live life! ♥ Love more! ♥ Smile a lot! :)

John 10:10

10… I [Jesus] have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.

Someone dear and beloved

In life there are times that we lost our spirit and believing that things could be so true...we were given a family that we sometimes forget they always care for us, that most of the time we overlook their thoughts and good deeds once we were down because of the bad things they have done to us. But did we ask ourselves too if we are also good or bad to them? even at once? I always believe that it is best to show them how much we truly appreciate them. that their thought is countless, that we are always here for them and we will never leave them thru ups and downs of life.  We need to show them that we love them while they still can appreciate it and they can even put their smile on their face because we made them happy and made them feel they are important and needed. Make each day counts. Let us always include them in our prayers and our everyday thoughts. We may not be the richest people to them, even not the prettiest daughter or the the best listener to them but at least be the best friend to them whom they can cry shoulders on, whom they can always depend on, whom they can share secrets with and laugh with. memories will always be there but they wont if they are gone...Lola baby and lolo maning and to all our beloved and dear ones, we thank God for sharing us your lives and we were all lucky to have you!!!!

IT'S TIME

Here's the thing. No one is perfect, No relationship is perfect no matter how it may look on the outside, Life isn't always fair, You will fall on your butt or hit a bumpy spot in life, It's how you deal with everything. Life is not easy. Sometimes you just have to do for yourself and not rely on anyone else. That is how you learn to survive. Not by having everything done for you or handed to you. If you get knocked down get back up and keep going. That is what makes you a stronger person. The lessons that you learn from life. If you keep making mistakes then maybe it's time to do something different! And if you don't change anything you will keep getting the same results.. I know i've done this many times. Not saying I don't still. And I know it may be hard at time's, but nothing happens over night! You can't just magically make your problems dissappear. Stop blaming other people for things that go wrong in your life and take charge of your own! It's your life. You only have yourself to blame if something keeps going wrong! I've had to learn this and it is a struggle not to blame other people for my problems. But I'm learning. It's a process. Baby steps. And just because you can't get all the help that you want, doesn't mean that people don't care. Means they want you to start fending for yourself. Time to grow up people!

simple fact

We lose the people we love because they are meant to love someone lese. We lose them bcoz we are destined to find somebody else. It is a simple  fact that is sometimes hard to accept bcoz we are too stubborn to let go of something that doenst belong to us anymore….

LETTING GO, GIVING UP, AND MOVING ON

 

When we learn to fall in love, we will never forget, we will be changed, and it will be a part of us forever. Yes, we can leave behind our old self, but that doesn’t mean we can turn our self back to who we are before we learned to fall in love.

 It is impossible to forget your past  no matter what feelings these memories brought you. Unless you are willing to hit your head in your futile effort to suffer selective amnesia without altering your personality during the process, those memories will remain a part of you, especially when those memories touch your heart and change your life. We can MOVE ON and accept the things that cannot be, and accept it as it is. But we can also accept the realities of life while preserving that love that we secretly nurtured in our heart. It is not about giving up, not about letting go. It’s about how we treasured that moments that let us experience the beauty of life. Whether we let go or not, the thing that matter is our manner of using that experience to make a better person in us. Giving up is not always the right way. Sometimes, we refuse to let go not because of fear, but because by doing, we will also give up HOPE. Without Hope, we have no reason to exist. By choosing to give up, we are in some way sacrificing our rights to honor our commitment. COMMITMENT makes relationship works, and help LOVE survive the test of time. Without COMMITMENT, we are giving up our right to fall in love. Love is created not by words but by feelings, not by humans but by heart. LOVE is not about “Wondering how long it will last”, it’s about “How beautiful you can make it grow”.  LOVE doesn’t mean you are with someone you truly love; it’s about “how that emotion touches you and changed your life”. We can’t give up without letting go, and we can’t let go if we keep on holding on. This makes the debate on GIVING UP, HOLDING ON, and LETTING GO moot and academic, because it is impossible to let go without giving up. It is impossible to LET GO while HOLDING ON at the same time.  Leaving behind our old self and taking a leap of faith into the unknown, to reveal what we are truly capable of becoming, might only happen, if we will learn to come to terms with our previous experiences in life.

By that time, there’s nothing to let go, nothing to give up, because we are no longer dealing with the present but the past. All we’ve got are pains, and perhaps, beautiful memories that we might choose to hold on. All we need is the realization of the present and,... MOVE ON....

LESSONS...

It’s not easy to forget someone- you may never forget him… But you can learn from it. Everything in life is a lesson- what you take from what you learned is what is important. If something did or didn’t happen, it did or didn’t for a reason. The first 3 days of a break up are the hardest- but each day that goes by is easier. Sometimes it takes a heart break to learn what we really need and want in life- and its those who don’t stop until they have just that 100% who truly succeed. You may no longer have that person, but you have the lesson, the will power, the knowledge, and the reason to find someone THAT MUCH BETTER!

BE STRONG!

Breaking up and having your heart break is a disaster, you feel as if your not worth anything and you think that no one else will luv u again, but chances are: there is someone out there in the world waiting for you to enter into their lives and before you know it, you’ll know that the one who broke your heart is not worth thinking of anymore…..that is why they say in life….luv never fails….if you find that special someone…..jus’ have patients, someday your dreams will come true…..a lil’ advise to all the heartbreakers out there, who are depressed because there boyfriends are playing games with you, don’t ever think of clinging to the past, it’s not worth crying and hoping that everything will be o.k…..don’t regret being with him, jus’ let folks go and move on with your life, because someday he’ll regret and he will come back to you and know that he turned his back on somone who once loved him with all her heart….so what goes around comes around…..

wondering if it is worth it

I hate love

Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn’t it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life…You give them a piece of you. They didn’t ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn’t your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like ‘maybe we should be just friends’ turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It’s a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.

IS THIS REALLY GOODBYE???

my letter of goodbye

HI THERE,

Where do I start? I wish I could tell you how much I still love you with all my heart. You're thousands of miles away from me.It's been a long time since we've talked and I miss you. I know I acted mad and dumb. If I could turn back  the time I would make things right.I don't know how to start this letter; I have so much emotion in my heart. I never thought this would happen, never thought that it would be over, that we would say our last goodbye.I want you to know that you will always be in my heart. The times we spent together I will carry forever deep in my soul.Every day, I'm waiting for signs, which sometimes leaves me with hopeless expectations. A simple smile makes me happy. A short conversation makes my whole day brighter. You fill the empty space in my heart, this is how you make me feel every day. Maybe I'm still not over you, even if I sing 1000 times that I'm over you, I know deep in my heart that I'm not. I'm still waiting and wanting to be with you again. I still want you back! Well, I don't know if you care now or if you've lost feelings for me... I don't know how you feel. My feelings for you are still the same and memories don't erase, they stay with me. Now I realize that it's true; you really don't ever know what you've got till you lose it. I lost you and if there was any way I could talk to you again I would, but you seem to have forgotten about me and you'll probably never read this, but this how I feel and I miss you.Thank you for coming into my life. I miss those times when you call me “BABY”.

I know I'm not the kind of woman you've dreamed of, but still you loved me for what I am. If you only knew how happy I was to have you and how my life fell apart when I lost you. I know that I've hurt you so many times and that I shouldn't be bothering your life now. I know that I said, "Let me go," but still here I am asking for another chance, if you could still be mine. Things really changed when you left. My life started to lose direction. I must admit, I still can't move on. I kept on blaming myself, it was my entire fault. I've been too selfish, too hard on you. Now I'm starting to realize that you were too good for me. You are a very good man and you deserve someone better than I am. I tried to change for you, but my efforts were not enough. I hope somehow, I made your life special, though I've not been perfect for you. I hope you'll be happy now and that you can find the person whom you truly deserve. If you really decide to let go, then I can do nothing. I know sorry is not enough for the things I have done but I hope my sincerity is enough. I regretted those foolish things that I've done. Because of those things, I lost you, I lost my life. And I'll never love again because of that. But if you can give me another chance, I swear this time I'll make sure I never, ever let you go. Even if it will take me a lifetime,I would not want another love than you. I'd rather be alone than to be with someone who can't take your place. We've done our best to make our relationship last longer, but things happen and we had to say goodbye. This goodbye would not mean forgetting our memories, they are too special to forget. It does not mean forgetting the things in our past that made us both better individuals. We had to say goodbye but I want you to remember this ... you will always have a special place in my heart. I consider myself lucky to experience a love as wonderful as yours. For the last time, I love you.

A cute LOVE STORY!

There was a boy whø daily sent his
girlfriend a rose when ever he was out.

1 day he died, 

still his girlfriend received
A Rose evryday,

She was shøcked she asked the floweriest,

she told her that her boyfriend had paid advance
for her whole life.

Sø…
Love someone such that it remains forever…

paramihan???

Paano ka gaganahan magmahal kung ang uso ngayon ay paramihan.
USO BA? Sakin hindi. Sa iba siguro oo. Ang malas mo naman kung ganun. Kailangan mong maging stalker sa BF/GF mo para malaman mo lang ang totoo na hindi lang ikaw ang tao sa buhay niya. Kaya lang, ba't ginagawa ng iba yon? Dahil ba hindi sila kontento sa isang tao?
Sa mga babaeng timer:
Sana hindi mo na lang sinagot ang lalaking nanliligaw sayo. Kung alam mo lang anong pangit ang iniisip ng iba sayo. Iisipin nila isa kang kaladkarin na babae. Babae ka pa naman. Ang pangit tignan. Para kang uhaw sa mga lalaki. May nakilala nakong ganto, ipinagmalaki pa nga ee. Syempre ako naman, Yuck na lang pumasok sa isip ko na sinabi niya sakin yon.
Sa mga lalaking timer:
Siraulo pala kayo ee. Feeling niyo dagdag pogi points ang maraming babae sa buhay niyo. Sa opinyon ko, mag dota ka na lang kesa mam-babae. Sabi nga ng matatanda, "ang babae parang bulalak, huwag mong pipitasin kung sisirain mo lang."
Tandaan: Sa bawat bagay na ginagawa mo, may naghihintay na pasakit o kapalit. Karma

REBOUND RELATIONSHIP...

-isang taong umibig na agad ng iba
kahit kagagaling lang sa napakasakit na break-up. naranasan mo na bang maging panakip-butas?
ung ginamit ka lang para makalimot?maging substitute? maging band-aid? ung maging first-aid sa broken hearted?eh ung maging pain reliever sa masakit nyang nakaraan? naranasan mo na bang maging rebound sa isang relasyon? sa una masaya pa dahil nakakareceive ka pa ng mga sweet messages galing sa kanya,ung paggising mo palang sa umaga pangalan na nya makikita mo sa cellphone mo. katext mo sya buong araw. mula paggising sa umaga at hanggang sa matulog sa gabi. minsan nga napupuyat kapa kase katext mo pa sya. ung tipong sya lang katext mo sa buong araw. ayaw mo nang kumain,maligo at maglinis nang bahay kase katext mo sya. ung iba nga nagiging mag-on ,pero yung iba mas piniling maging MU nalang. Hanggang sa lumipas ang ilang araw, ilang linggo at ilang buwan. Minsan naiisip mo na MAHAL NYA BA TALAGA AKO?o REBOUND LANG AKO? Alam na nga natin na REBOUND lang tayo, pero pinagpapatuloy pa natin to.kahit alam natin na mahirap maging panakip-butas, maging substitute, maging band-aid, maging first-aid, maging pain relieverat maging pampalipas oras. Parang pinaglalaruan lang tayo. Pero tatanggapin mo to kase mahal mo sya. kahit alam nating ginagamit lang tayo para makalimot para maalis ang hapdi ng nakaraan nila.Tanga ka, kase kahit ganon ang ginawa nya sayo. Mahal mo parin sya.kahit ang sakit-sakit na...  oo, masakit maging rebound, Kasi akala mo mahal ka talaga nya pero hindi, ginamit ka lang nya para makalimutan ang nakaraan nya. =( pero ganyan naman talaga diba? LAHAT NG NAGMAMAHAL, NAGPAPAKATANGA :|

DEFINITION OF LOVE

                                                                    Love is...
                                                      being happy for the other person
                                                      when they are happy being sad for the person
                                                      when they are sad
                                                      being together in good times
                                                      and being together in bad times
                                                     Love is the source of strength.

                                                                        Love is...
                                                    being honest with yourself at all times
                                                    being honest with the other person at all times
                                                    telling, listening, respecting the truth and never pretending
                                                    Love is the source of reality.

                                                                 Love is...
                                                   an understanding so complete that
                                                   you feel as if you are a part of the other person
                                                  accepting the other person just the way they are
                                                  and not trying to change them to be something else
                                                 Love is the source of unity.

                                                               Love is...
                                                 the freedom to pursue your own desires
                                                 while sharing your experiences
                                                 with the other person
                                                 the growth of one individual alongside of
                                                 and together with the growth of another individual
                                                Love is the source of success.

                                                              Love is...
                                                the excitement of planning things together
                                               the excitement of doing things together
                                               Love is the source of the future

                                                            Love is...
                                               the fury of the storm
                                               the calm in the rainbow
                                               Love is the source of passion

                                                           Love is...
                                              giving and taking in a daily situation
                                              being patient with each others needs and desires
                                              Love is the source of sharing.

                                                          Love is...
                                            knowing that the other person will
                                            always be with you regardless of what happens
                                            missing the other person when they are away
                                            but remaining near in heart at all times
                                            Love is the source of security Love is the source of life...

A STORY OF A SAD GIRL..

Her name was Abby,She was only five.This is what happened
......When she was alive.Her dad was a drunk Her mom was an addict Her parents kept her.Locked in an attic,
Her only friend was a little toy bear.It was old and worn out And had patches of hair,She always talked to it when no one's around She lays there and hugs it,Not a peep of sound until her parents unlock the door..Some more and more pain..She'll have to endore ,a bruise on her leg, a scar on her face.Why would she be in such a horrible place?
But she grabs her bear and softly crys, she loves her parents but they want her to die..She sits in the corner
Quiet but thinking," God, why? Why is my life always sinking? "Such a bad life for a sad little kid.She'd get beaten and beaten for anything she did..Then one night her mom came home high the poor child was hit and slapped as hours went by then her mom suddenly grabbed for a blade,It was sharp and pointy one that she made..She trusted the blade right in her chest," You deserve to die, you worthless pest! "The mom walked out leaving the girl slowly dying
she grabbed her bear and again started crying.. police showed up at the small little house they quickly barged in
everything was as quiet as a mouse one officer slowly opened a door to find the sad little girl lying on the floor,It must have been bad to go through so much harm but at least she died with her best friend in her arms....

Like this if you against Child ABUSE :'(

cant live? wrong.. i can!

I̶ ̶c̶a̶n̶'̶t̶ ̶l̶i̶v̶e̶ w̶i̶t̶h̶o̶u̶t̶ y̶o̶u̶.

SOrry .. It Was WrOng ..
Now I Can .. !! =)... COZ The Day You Left Me,
I Realized THAT No Matter How Much I CRY OR FIGHT ...
UR Not THE ONE FOR ME... God Has Made SomeOne Better For Me Than YOU...!!

No one

 

•●♥No one understands the silence between my words,

•●♥No one understands the sadness behind my smile,

•●♥No one understands the unsaid feelings of mine,
.
•●♥They think I am fine but only I know daily I am dying..... :'(

•●♥ I want to be happy again,

•●♥ I want to live those moments again,

•●♥ I am sick of wearing a fake smile.. :(

•●♥I am waiting for the one who can really make me smile..:)

I'm Committed But I'm Single...

My Love 'n My Faith is only for you...
In My Mind You Are the only one who Rules..
'n I Let no one else come into my Life...

I know I'll never Get You As Mine..
But Still My Heart 'n Soul Waits for ur Love...

I Wish You to have a Happy Life..
With Your Love...
Where You Get all Your Happiness 'n Love..
But I Be-live that None can Love You More Than Me..

I'm Committed for the World..
But For you I'm still Single..'n I'll always Be...
Committed only towards Your Love..

DIFFERENCE BETWEEN '"SOMEONE U L♥VE'" AND '"SOMEONE U LIKE'"

In front of d person u love,ur heart beats faster...
But in front of the person u like,u get happy...
In front of a person u love,winter seems like a spring...

But in front of a person u like,winter is just a beautiful winter...
If u look into the eyes of the one u love,u blush...
But if u look into the eyes of the one u like,u smile...
In front of a person u love,u can't say anything on ur mind...
But in front of a person u like,u can...
In front of the one u love,u tend to get shy...

Life is a Gift...

Today before you think of saying an Unkind word;
- Think of someone who can't Speak.. =(

... Before you Complain about the Taste of your food;
-Think of someone who has nothing to Eat.. =(

Before you complain about your Husband or Wife;
-Think of someone who's crying out to God for a Companion.. =\

Today before you complain about Life;
-Think of someone who went too early to Heaven.. =(

Before you complain about your Children;
-Think of someone who desires Children, but they're Barren.. =$

Before you argue about who Cleans up your Dirty house;
-Think of the people who are living in the Streets.. =|

Before whining about the Distance you drive;
-Think of someone who walks the same distance on their feet.. =(

And when you are Tired and complain about your Job;
-Think of the Unemployed, the Disabled and those who wished
They had your Job.. =)

But before you think of Pointing the finger or condemning another,
-Remember that nobody is Perfect or without Faults.. =)

And when depressing Thoughts seem to get you down;
-Put a Smile on your face and be Thankful you're Alive and still around..♥ =)

Life is a Gift,
Live It, Enjoy It, Celebrate It And fulfil It..♥ =)

LOVE IS...

 

                    LOVE is not to say,
                    But to understand..♥

                    LOVE is not to show,
                    But to feel inside..♥

                    LOVE is not to find faults,
                    But to make the best..♥♥

                    LOVE is not to demand,
                    But to sacrifice..♥♥

                    LOVE is not to hurt,
                    But to take care of..♥♥

                    LOVE is not blind,
                    But it doesn't need to see.. ♥♥